R-E-S-P-E-C-T
by author Kiersten White
Let’s talk about developing respect as a writer. Not figuring out how to make others respect you (though I go about this by bringing up vomit as often as possible; people respond really well to it and know that I’m a Serious Writer because I’m willing to tackle such taboo topics), but rather, how to develop the respect you need in order to be the best writer possible. This respect is twofold: Respect for the audience, and respect for the craft.
Too often I’ve come across quotes from authors saying they despise YA. And…they write it. After I finish screaming AVADA KEDAVRA! at their names on my computer screen, I’m just sad. Here are authors openly saying they despise YA, and still they continue to write it. Now, sometimes it’s one of the author-factory type writers, trying to cash in on YA popularity (who have deep respect!…for the credit cards of the parents of their audience). Sometimes this hatred stems from feeling their stories are above their readers.
To both of which I say, AVADA KEDAVRA! Ahem. I mean, to which I say, bull crap. If you think your writing is too good for a teen audience, I say take it elsewhere and good riddance. There are more than enough writers out there who not only care deeply about teenagers, but also respect them and their intelligence. I firmly believe that some of the best writing out there is being done for teens.
Whether you are writing for teens, or romance readers, or sci-fi or fantasy or Western or hard-boiled detective or fantastic-sci-fi-Western-detective fans, respect your audience. They are, after all, who your story will belong to once it goes out into the world. If you hate the group you are writing for, write something else. (Better yet, take up a job as a costumer service hotline representative. Your hatred of humanity will serve you well there, and the rest of us who actually care about audience will be free to continue to do so until our computers break or our internet goes out, and then you can have your misanthropic revenge and loathe us to your heart’s content.)
But these authors’ disdain for YA extends past their readership. Because in making such statements, they show they also hate their peers, those fellow authors creating content for teens. (Say it with me: AVADA KEDAVRA! There now, didn’t that feel good?) Which shows me that they have no idea what they’re talking about, and that these authors are idiotic readers, too.
And this brings us to our second area of respect: Respect for the craft. The authors that I read and love, no matter what they are writing, respect their craft. They take it seriously. They study. They work hard to improve. They do their best to truly craft their art.
(I know. This is coming from an author who used the phrase “strategic posture shifts for maximum cleavagization” in her most recent book. CRAFT, my friends.)
I don’t write serious books. I don’t write literary fiction, or Printz award winners. I write fun, sugar-coated books with dark chocolate cores. (I don’t mean that literally. Please don’t email me enraged after chewing off a corner of Supernaturally to discover it is, in fact, just paper and ink.) (We should totally petition for a special edition made of dark chocolate with a pink sugar crystal coating.) But I write the best bleeping fun books I can. I made my writing choices very deliberately. I studied the lighthearted, playful style of my favorite middle grades, I studied the OH MY GOSH DELICIOUS ANGST of my favorite YA novels, and then I tried to bring the two together with a big dash of regional mythology and pop culture. I opted to use a strong narrative voice so that it was never Evie-in-a-story, but rather always Evie’s Story. I wrote deliberately. I wrote respectfully. I try to do the same with every book I devote time to.
I respect the craft. And, as an extension of that, I respect my fellow authors. One of my most recent manuscripts was partially inspired by elements from Imaginary Girls (Nova Ren Suma, magical realism), Chime (Franny Billingsley, historical fantasy), Please Ignore Vera Dietz (A.S. King, contemporary), and Legend (Marie Lu, dystopian). Read outside your genre. Pick the best of what you find, and figure out how you can get better by reading it. Don’t look down on something because it isn’t what you write, or what you typically read. There is incredible writing happening in every genre out there, in YA and out of it, in mainstream publishing and in small press.
When you dismiss an entire genre or section of books, you are denying yourself the opportunity to discover and learn.
In short, respect. Wherever you are in your journey as a writer. Respect your audience enough to trust their judgment and taste, enough to care deeply about the people you are giving stories to. Respect your craft enough to learn something no matter what you’re reading or writing. Respect your peers enough to evaluate their work without bias and figure out what they are doing right. And finally, respect yourself enough to become the best writer you possibly can.
And if you happen to find one of those disrespectful authors slumped in the corner of a lair, an expression of mild shock replacing the sneering glare at both peers and audience, well, now you know what happens when you fail to learn proper respect.
AVADA KEDAVRA!*
*Just kidding, guys. You know I would never use an unforgivable curse. But only because I don’t have my wand yet.
Kiersten White is the NYT Bestselling author of Paranormalcy and Supernaturally. She has one tall husband and two small children and lives near the ocean, where her life is perfectly normal. This abundance of normal led her to a fascination with all things paranormal, including but not limited to vampires, faeries, and pop culture.
SUPERNATURALLY by Kiersten White: Evie finally has the normal life she’s always longed for. But she’s shocked to discover that being ordinary can be . . . kind of boring. Just when Evie starts to long for her days at the International Paranormal Containment Agency, she’s given a chance to work for them again. Desperate for a break from all the normalcy, she agrees.
But as one disastrous mission leads to another, Evie starts to wonder if she made the right choice. And when Evie’s faerie ex-boyfriend Reth appears with devastating revelations about her past, she discovers that there’s a battle brewing between the faerie courts that could throw the whole supernatural world into chaos. The prize in question? Evie herself.
So much for normal.



“Respect your audience.”
Excellent, Kiersten. Such a good post. Are there really authors who look down on YA and they write it? Sad!
This is great, Kiersten. Avada Kedavra! I’m sayin’ it with ya. It’s amazing how some people are. Although, they may inspire a great story.
Can’t wait to read Supernaturally. Great cover.
This is great! Thank you, Kiersten. It’s so important to remember respect for our craft, our audience, our peers, and ourselves.
Kiersten, I think I love you.
Okay, I have to tweet this. That was as scrumptious as a sugar coated dark chocolate truffle. I just love every word and feel so deliciously inspired! Thank you, Kiersten! WRITE ON!!
I’m reading Supernaturality right now and your sugar-coated fun is a wonderful treat!
People who don’t treat children (kids and teens) with respect are losing out on something, I think. (Besides great kidlit.) They lose a bit of their souls, the wonderful child-like wonder that respect for that time in our lives can bring. (Maybe the Dementors paid them a visit.)
Thanks for the great post!
Lovely post. Supernaturally showcases that you mean every word. It’s a fun, loving, creative story that respects readers.
You’ve got my respect!
Fantastic post, Kiersten. I’m glad you made the point that we must not only respect our audience, whatever age they may be, but we must also respect our craft and work hard to improve it. I’m finding that the more I learn about writing, the more there is to learn, and that’s exciting to me, and makes me want to work harder at what I do.
And I have to say, I love to read YA and I have great respect for those who write it, because it is totally out of my skillset as a writer, so I applaud those who can craft fantastic YA novels.
Now, could anyone explain to me why I always spell respect “responct” and have to go back and change it?
Kiersten – When I saw you on the itenerary Tuesday I marked my calendar! I just finished Paranormalcy a couple months ago and loved the *Bleep* out of it! I had to come over and read your article
Loved it btw.
Thank you for taking time to share with us!!
Great post. I just love your sense of humor and voice.
Excellent post! And to all those who look down their nose and sneer when I tell them I write YA romance (like I’m too stupid to do anything else or something)… AVADA KEDAVRA!
Of course I’m preaching to the choir here. No one cool enough to participate in WriteOnCon wouldn’t already respect their audience and craft.
Mostly I just wanted to shout AVADA KEDAVRA a lot.
I wish I knew who some of these authors were so I could have words with them. Why do I write for kids and teens? Because I remember it vividly, because it was hard, because books helped me through it, because some of the most beautiful books I’ve ever read that impacted my life are from that time, because I love being with and working with teens, because the thought of making their lives better in any way makes me all fuzzy inside. They’re a dedicated audience and some of the most wonderful books have been written in that genre. I’m honored to be in such good company.
Thanks for speaking out against YA haters. I’ll even forgive you for using an unforgivable curse.
Theresa — what you said is so perfect! Thank you for expressing it for all of us.
I love this! Seriously, why would you want to do something if you had no respect for your “clients”? Pediatricians who don’t respect kids, teachers who don’t respect students — seems like a pretty passionless way to live. How could you write something with genuine excitement if you had no respect for your genre, colleagues, or readers?
(I was going to give my own homies — the lawyers — a shoutout, but then I remembered … oh yeah. But hey, lawyers respect justice, and that’s good enough for me.)
I love this! Thanks!
Yes, to every word! And specially yes to the special edition made of dark chocolate with a pink sugar crystal coating. Yummy!
Yay! I was hoping there’d be a Kiersten post at WriteOnCon. Wishes come true!
This article is packed full of good advice, my favorites being to write the story so the character is in charge rather than just flowing down a river (I needed to hear this) and to read in other genres as much as possible.
Thank you!
Mmm, I love your fun sugar coated books with dark chocolate cores. Thanks for the post.
Fantastic post! I love the idea of respecting your audience and craft. Makes perfect sense. That respect comes through to the readers as well. I’ve read books that I felt were very commercially driven, and others which the author pulled me into and felt like they were letting me in on their biggest secrets.
I also love your voice, and have now made it a point to read your books. Anyone who comes across as witty, intelligent, and entertaining while teaching gets my reading vote!
I love reading outside my genre. I’d go nuts if ALL I read were picture books (though I do absolutely LOVE them and can read them for hours). A good literary women’s novel is always nice. Or a psychological thriller, medical thriller, Christian romance, contemporary YA, or a funny MG. Love ‘em (and respect ‘em) ALL!
I made myself a wand when I was younger. All of my sistes and I had one, and well, we were quite practiced with them
Good luck getting your wand.
What a fantastic post!! You are so right when you say that we must RESPECT not only our readers, but also our craft. I love your idea of pink sugar coated books made from dark chocolate!!!
I actually remember the cleavagization bit. Locker room, right? lol.
I totally agree. There are some genres that aren’t my thing, but I don’t make judgements about anyone who writes them. For example, I don’t do adult romantic comedy, but I read and loved Tawna Fenske’s MAKING WAVES. I don’t do historical, but I learned a heap while enjoying Dianne K. Salerni’s WE HEAR THE DEAD. I read both of these because they are writer-friends, and I’m probably not going to rush out and buy a stack of books in either genre. But I still know they’re worth their salt.
I know exactly what you mean, Kiersten. As a YA reader (and reviewer, and writer on the side), my reaction to disrespect of YA and its audience — ME — is, “Well then, bleep if I’m reading your bleeping book.”